@wundayatta I’d tell him my personal tastes or, chances are, he’d already know. But I wouldn’t force him or try to convince him to alter himself if I saw he was happy with what he’s like, you know? Ultimately, if I fall in love with someone and get together with them, it’s gonna be for something else besides their looks, unless, of course, he mutates into a giant fly and pukes everywhere all night. I just may have to call it quits then.
If I had a daughter that agreed with me about how my husband should groom himself, well alright, we’d have some few laughs behind his back. Nothing mean. But as I say, why should I force him to look how I want him to? I want to be happy in the relationship, but I would want my partner to be happy, too. I’m sure we could work something out without going all surgery style on one another’s ass. I’d tell my daughter to accept how her dad is, but really, I’m not entirely sure how his thick ass beard, or complete lack thereof, would affect the family in any real significant way. People gotta be comfortable with themselves, keep an open mind and accept shit as it is, as long as it hurts no one. I’d try to teach that if I could, and I’d hope my husband would try just as much, too.
I know that’s one huge mouthful to digest for someone who doesn’t have a family, not to mention it sounds incredibly corny, but until reality hits me in the face, and if anyone decides not to murder me on my honeymoon, I’ll stand by that.
@fundevogel actually it is pretty sexy; a symbol of phallic immensity or pride or cuuum on, yeah. Neat. It’s just that I can’t help but to think that this was an actual convo between people back in 2004. Still, wizard robes, fock ya.