I don’t want a jungle, but I don’t want a bare wasteland either.
I come from a different angle… My ex was obsessed with porn of barely legal teens, and I’m sure some of the girls he watched were under 18. He asked me to shave a few times and I thought it was for whatever reason, but once I realized it was because he wanted me to look 12, I have since then NEVER been able to go bald without feeling deeply disturbed.
I also have concerns about pubes becoming gross in society’s mind—a clean body, no matter how much hair is anywhere, does not stink unless that person has some hormonal problem. I understand that there are personal preferences for comfort levels—that makes sense and, sure, why not. Do what feels right. But for me, this “imitating porn stars” or 12 year olds just feels wrong.