I know in at least some cases, people feel extremely guilty when they are having an affair with a married man, who’s wife is pregnant, even though they already know are not going to end the affair, so they ask for advice, hoping against all odds that someone will tell them it’s OK, even when they know that it’s not OK. Then they get pissy when no one tells them it’s OK.
Sometimes (mostly young stupid naive young girls) want to hook up with some dude who has liedcheatedstolenabused because they think they are super-special and that they, alone, are the one girl who can changefixresurrectinfluenceforthebest this dude and they are so desperate convinced that they can change this douche dude that they practically demand that we agree with them. They get all flustered and pissy when we suggest that they should run, because most of us have already been there, done that, sometimes multiple times.
Still can’t figure out why every one thinks that multiples are so awesome