I am completely oblivious to any bullies having been in my school. One neighbor of mine was teased as a little girl in elementary school, but she moved away and the fresh start at a new school changed everything. Aside from that in primary school I didn’t know of any bullying. But, in high school, I am unaware of any major bullying going on. I hope my experience actually reflects what was going on overall in my school. When I hear men talk, it seems to me like lots of bullying goes on as a matter of course when they are schoolage, some sort of hazing, bullying, razzing, which really bothers me.
I don’t feel staisfied if they grow up to be losers, it makes me sad to see they never learned, never had the epiphany or self worth to change how they interact with society.
I guess if I had been bullied I might get some satisfaction out of the mean kid winding up a loser, but that mean kid probably had a really shitty life his whole life. Although, that is not always true, I think we want to think that is always true, but it isn’t.
I would rather focus on the kid who was harassed winding up being the extremely successful and respected, than look at where the bully wound up.