Becoming the strongest version of myself. Being truly happy with oneself. An endless journey to build who I am. And in that I find happiness is something that is not constant. There is no point that I’ve found for myself in which I was perfectly happy. Reaching out for everything else and leaving your foundation (person) in the mind, body and spirit. In my experience left me empty at times.
Nothing wrong with that going after everything else. However, when something I would fail at, or a change which through me off. Challenges and so on…..I had to come back to myself. It wasn’t everything else as much as it was can I trust myself? My metaphor for myself is I am building a sculpture or a a brick wall if you will. In which piece by piece I am creating myself. Defining. It is a process.
Spend sometime alone. There is a video I was watching and the guy goes hey spend some time alone. I dare you to spend time by yourself. You’re so busy talking, thinking and looking at other people and their life you forgot to live your own.
Here is the full video if interested http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y3QpubKy8_s
For me I am still learning and growing. There was this idea in which I believed that a single thing,goal or point in my life would tie the knot. It would magically make sense of everything. Wrong. I was very wrong.
It is never ending. When I stop moving forward in some way or another. I am literally approaching death standing in place. I mean think about that everyone has a clock and it is ticking. Do something that improves you. Keep moving forward. Because one thing that is certain you are losing time.
The only other thing I will say, is this just my personal views from growing, learning and thinking my past 23 years of living. Who knows what it will be like in the future. Will my mindset be different? You are going to have go out and in whichever way you attack it – Figure it out for you.