@dappled_leaves
It’s not shaming to point out possibly poor choices on behalf of the OP.
Yes, sharing a bed or having sex with a random guy is a valid choice, but so is snorting pills. Just because it’s ”valid” doesn’t mean that it’s a good choice.
It was bad of the guy to take the girl’s picture without her permission but on her part, it’s a bad idea to sleep with (sex or not) with guys that you don’t fully know/trust yet.
If I cashed my whole paycheck today and walked down a ghetto street in my city, waving my $$ in plain sight for all to see, and then I get mugged, clearly my assailant would be in the wrong and ought to be punished, but at I just a little bit at fault? For not considering my personal safety in the least?
I gotta say, I’m getting pretty tired of the “can’t-ever-say-anything-critical-about-anyone-who-is-a-victim” attitude that is prevalent these days. Clearly, there are many scenarios where the victim TRULY does no wrong, but what happened to personal precautions and being smart/safe about your surroundings? You can’t just throw everything to the wind and then act surprised when bad things happen. “I sleep in a guy’s bed. We aren’t in a relationship and I barely know him. How could he take a picture of me without my permission?!?! How could this happen?!” Because that’s what can happen when you willingly put yourself into intimate/close quarters with a person that you barely know and have no idea of how they are character-wise.