@Coloma
What’s the matter with going to a church and letting them know that one hasn’t found a belief system which is right for them (or any belief at all for that matter)?
Do you think that there have never been any instances of agnostics going to church and letting others know they’re agnostic? Guess again.
I see absolutely nothing wring with him telling them that and that he’s kind of lonely and figured this might be a good place in the community to make friends.
What’s the matter with that?
Just because you wouldn’t personally feel comfortable doing that doesn’t mean that it extrapolates to everyone.
Wpuid he be better off in a bar?
I perfectly respect your right to reject a belief system which is inauthentic for you. How about respecting someone else’s right to explore a bit in search of human companionship without insinuating he’s being disingenuous or just using them? Isn’t that kind of assuming a lot?