The fellow I knew supported each of his children, not just financially. He spent time with each woman and her children. He was sweet, and attractive. He was partner in his father’s thriving business. There were no support suits last I heard. This was thirty years ago. I didn’t keep in touch when I left home and moved on with my life. He had a dream of being an Olympic marathon runner. I imagine he could have been good, he sure seemed to have plenty of stamina. He didn’t pursue hid dream though, because he loved his babies, and wanted to be there with them.
From these answers, I would say it does happen, sometimes because a man really loves babies, some because a man wants sex, and doesn’t give a hoot what will be the outome.
I was so very stunned to learn of his brood. I knew him for a while before I knew of it all. He told me I was too young for him to include me, he had his rules. He wanted me to know, so that if I wanted to consider being one of his women later, he would gladly introduce me to the women and children he had so far. I told him it wasn’t for me. I played another sort of role in his life. When he wanted someone to talk with, sort things out, he came to me. Sometimes it would be midnight. I would see his work truck out front of my house, so I would go out. He would lay across the seat with his head in my lap, and talk for sometimes hours. I never met a sweeter man. It really blew me away the life he had. It still does.
jca, I suppose the subject would sound just awful to you, since you work with CPS, but his kids were cared for. I sure can’t imagine what the beginning of the school year got to be like eventually, when all his kids got old enough to attend.
canidmajor, what a story. I feel so sorry for all those families. That guy sure must have a cold heart to leave behind families he lived with, raised, knew.
Thankyou all, for participating.