@Nevada83 You are asking for big, big, big trouble. This is a scam. You are most likely being Cat Fished.
So you think you can’t be scammed because you have video chatted with this person? Think again. One of my dear friends got cat fished from a man who she had Skyped with for over a year. She also Skyped with who she thought was this man’s daughter. Turns out the team was scamming women all over the dating websites.
My friend “met” this fellow on Match.com. She talked to him on the site, then talked to him over e-mail, then talked to him on the phone, then started Skyping him. In the meantime, she did all her research to see if he was legitimate. She even looked up the company where he said he worked. After a year of this, she agreed to meet him. Of course he was flying in from a foreign country. She was to meet him at the airport. Guess what, she got to the airport, the flight he was supposed to be in came in, the man was not on it. Shortly afterward she received a text from him saying that he had been detained in customs, but if she could just wire him X amount of dollars, he could get that all cleared up.
It was at that moment that she realized that she had been being cat fished. For over a year. This happened to an intelligent adult woman, who did all the homework and research she could, before she agreed to meet him, because she had been hurt before.
What she found out was that this man was all over the dating sites, with different, but similar names. He picked a name of a real person that worked for a real company, but this guy was not that guy. He had fake pictures of himself with his happy family (he claimed to be a widower) he had fake pictures of himself at work, on vacation, at home etc. They Skyped regularly, he told her how much he cared about her etc. etc. etc.
My friend ultimately reported this guy to Match.com and found out that he had scammed multiple women in the same way, also she did a little research and found out that he was doing this on other dating sites like OK Cupid and a couple of others. You want to know how he was able to fake like he cared about her so easily? Facebook. It has every piece of information that anyone needs to know to find out what you look like, who your family is, what your marital status is, and what things you like to do. So the dude picked out all of these things and used them to pretend like he was so similar and so caring and so interested in all of the same things. It was easy really.
This is what is happening to you. Also, since you have a vivid imagination and think that your teachers might have a crush on you (where we can guess that it’s the other way around) you probably have mixed up ideas about what men want, and how they go about expressing their needs. You also seem like a girl that could be fooled easily. I hope you don’t allow yourself to be fooled by this scam. This particular scam sounds like a typical Green Card Scam
However, now that I see the last two posts, I believe that it is Fluther that is being scammed. Anyone else agree?