Well I get all of my mother’s attention and love and “I need help” calls, so we’re pretty close.
Like @chyna said, I am her POA and get to make decisions on my own, or I can ask my aunts and uncles if needed.
To me there aren’t a lot of benefits that aren’t emotional, of course I don’t consider her money as any of my business unless she needs some or has passed.
Frankly it’s a lot of pressure to succeed, to make money, to ‘take care’ of her, to keep an eye on her health status, her living status, her financial status, her car, her job, etc…. I put a lot of that on myself since she is not married.