No embalming, no casket. She was wrapped in essentially a quilt on a buckboard and put in the ground (yes in city limits in a progressive, liberal city in Mo-they do exist!)
Her female circle did an invocation, reminding us we are all one. Some mandolin was played. We all got flowers to keep or put in with her. Then we were asked to leave in silence, giving her spouse time alone.
All in all, it was very loving. Not one word about Christianity per se, just the we are one, we are love, and that’s all we need -type of service.