@LuckyGuy Nope, I avoided marrying the grieving spouse because she is still here with us. After he & I held an intervention, she came to her senses. I did end up agreeing to keep an eye on him just in case he doesn’t deal with it well. I’ve promised to crack the whip to keep him in line as necessary. He’s agreed to it but both he & I know that, although he’s going to miss her terribly, he will survive better than she’s giving him credit. IF he doesn’t, he’ll have a friend to be there to assist in picking up the pieces. We’ve BOTH assured her that there will be NO marriage between us & she can just forget that idea!!!
@ALL…Thank you for your kind words. This has been an experience of a lifetime, but one that I wouldn’t have wanted to miss for anything!!!