I would like to hug you & ride ponies at the beach together for asking this…love it!
I can only imagine why some are wired like that, but I don’t want to waste energy on them.
These types are nowhere in my inner circle & it will stay that way forever.
I liken their attitude to people who never give credit or due praise to anyone but are the first ones to pour scorn & throw insults around.
I loathe that way of being, a complete mystery to me.