@kritiper You can comply and get raped, die, all sorts of horrible ends. You’re more likely to simply be arrested and taken to the police station, but there is a chance complying gets you harmed, and right now that’s very in our faces. It’s quite obvious and easy to understand that police work attracts men who see control, like driving fast, carrying a gun, and moving through society with people presuming you are in the side of good. I don’t mean the majority of cops are bad people, I believe just the opposite, most police interactions I’ve had have been very positive, or at minimum neutral, but there are too many bad eggs. It’s similar to teachers, coaches, and clergy, the positions attract pedophiles, but most teachers, coaches, and clergy have callings to the positions and are working for all the right reasons.
When I was a teen I was told if it was late at night to put on my hazards and drive slowly to the police station or a well lit busy store parking lot instead of being pulling over on a dark road. I’ve never done that, but it doesn’t sound like a bad idea. In fact, I think cops should be aware this is something told to young women, or it used to be anyway, so they understand why we keep driving.
I assume you’re white and male, and have no clue what it feels like to feel extremely vulnerable. Maybe you didn’t grow up hearing stories of people getting hurt by security guards and cops.