Yes.
I think sooner or later it happens to almost everyone, male or female – and reading the replies above it’s clear that it can take different forms and involve many situations.
As a younger single woman what I’ve experienced most has been inappropriate sexual language and unwelcome touching. It goes on in the workplace, but also when I’m in public. I’m far from being a prude and I accept a certain amount of harmless flirting. But I think it’s always important to set personal boundaries, and learn to trust your gut in knowing when things are getting out of control.
The way I’ve resolved it depends on my environment. I’m a gig worker with jobs in real estate, hospitality (bartending), legal services, and fashion (modeling). Depending on circumstances I may report it senior management or union reps, refuse service to a client or customer, or get law enforcement involved. The biggest problems occurr when management or employers themselves are the source of harrassment, or when I’m in public alone outside work and with no kind of backup. Whatever the context I always start by talking directly to whoever is making me uncomfortable and trying to diffuse the situation by explaining why what they’re doing is out of line. If that doesn’t work I usually get louder & more blunt by telling them to stop and letting them know there will be consequences. Finally I take action by making a report, calling in help, or pushing back on physical intimidation.
I’m not a small person and I like to think I’m smart enough to take care of myself, but the fact is the worst has happened more than once. Regardless the risks I feel no one should ever tolerate physical abuse or other harrassing behavior on the job or in their personal life. Be clear with everyone about your limits. Know what your rights are at work, understand the law, and do what you have to do to protect yourself.