I can’t say that I relate to your question. I voted for a local mayor who was found, not long after the election, to have done unsavory things to get the position and had hired family members into high positions without any relevant experience. I fell out of favor of them immediately. I was not yet an adult, but was disappointed about how Clinton avoided disclosing his inappropriate sexual relationships while in office.
I don’t at all feel like it’s ok in my camp but not ok in the other… not sure if that is about my own personality/outlook/values or if it’s related to me not being affiliated with any political party (although my values are strongly on one side over the other).