No. Most “Rich” people have very little cash on hand. It is tied up in investments.

But for hotel though?

@honeybun35 He would have to tell his assistant for the cash. Maybe he doesn’t want anyone to know?

I know that Dave Ramsey from the internet money Guru doesn’t even have a credit card. Also The billionaire Warren Buffett only has enough cash to last the day on him. Like exactly enough money to buy a McDonald’s breakfast sandwich, and a diet coke.

Hmm I see

Hotel PUBLIC

Your place PRIVATE.

@honeybun35 Also he is protecting you from the Paparazzi celebrity Social Media.

Even if I met him there before.

@honeybun35 oh I forgot. Good point. Sorry. Then I don’t know.

What @Tropical_Willie said.

Yes, you met him there once but the more you go there, the more exposed he is to the media and people seeing him.

Bless your heart, honey. Say good bye and if you see him again, run the other way.

Why would I? He’s a celebrity

^^And that’s an important credential? Keep doing what you’re doing and you’ll keep getting what you’re getting. And that doesn’t sound like respect.

@honeybun35 If you’re just looking to get laid, that’s easy to find.

It seems like there are two – maybe three – separate issues here.

1) the guy doesn’t want to go to your house because someone else lives there as well. That’s strange, why should it bother him? I can see how that might be a benefit; it gives him cover if people ask him where he was. He can say “with friends” honestly. So this is sort of weird from the start.

2) Not having money: others have answered this so I really don’t need to. But I do find it odd that he would prefer your house to a hotel where there is security and safety. Something stinks about this whole excuse – for that matter, the whole story. What sort of a lowlife is this celebrity to cadge off of you? It’s more than a little odd – the circumstances.

3) Finally, does he say that he’s a celebrity? Or do others? From what you wrote, he sounds like a sniveling chisler, not a world renowned personality.

Something isn’t right here. Either he’s a fraud, or you’re leaving out important facts. But the situation you described is awfully suspicious.

If this cat is really in to you he should do what he has to do to keep you happy. He can always disguise himself or just go in the hotel in the open with you. A pox on the paparazzi. And he can pay with a credit card. Wherever. Let us know what happens.

He is r&,b singer from the 90s he didn’t have tell me I knew that back then before ever meeting him. His group just toured with famous r&b group in March. I wouldn’t call someone a celebrity if they just tell me that would be dumb. The group he’s in his brother is lead singer has hits in the 90s. Been on music awards plenty of times with his group.

I have been a fan of his group since late 88s actually. I said 90s but they were out in 1988.

Maybe he doesn’t have that much money. A R&B singer from a group that was popular in the 90’s might not be loaded. I had the feeling he was a famous-famous singer, like Bon Jovi. To me, that’s a celebity. You used the word “celebrity.” Sounds to me like he just wants to get laid and doesn’t want to spend any money for it, or maybe he’s married or with someone and doesn’t want the spouse/partner to show up at his hotel room.

Oh I see well he’s not married. It’s known in his live that he nor his brothers ever got married. I do get the other part though. Makes sense.

@honeybun35 He might have a girlfriend and maybe he’s afraid s he’ll show up at the hotel, or if his friends and bandmates see you going to his room or leaving his room, they might tell her or maybe they’re there with their girlfriends and the girlfriends will tell her.

Like someone else said, he sounds like a moocher. Plus if he was a hit in the late 80s, he was likely in his 30s so that would put him at around 70. Maybe he’s on social security and doesn’t have money to spare for motels.

Almost all of the questions you ask on here have to do with guys you sleep with and there’s always a problem with them. Maybe try and make yourself happy instead of depending on men.

Lol no he wasn’t in his 30’s he is in his early 50s you’re funny and must be young.He was in his late teens back then.

Honestly, it seems like he doesn’t like you that much if his main concern is going to your house. It’s not about seeing you, spending time with you, enjoying your company, spending his money on a place if that’s what he wants, it’s about a freebie at your place.

Really? But why my house only he could get freebie anywhere. Usually they like to show off.

He wants a free place for sex. He doesn’t want to spend any money on anything. He doesn’t want to show off, he wants to get laid.

Even if we kept in touch and he keeps asking for a massage.

Doesn’t want to spend time with you. Asking for a massage is his way of reaching out.

But he want to do it at my house only for free. So I have questions because I’m was texting him before that . I apologized and said sorry was being fresh. He later replied 2am and said all is good I was in the studio. I still need that massage.

In the end, we are all famous singers one time or another.

@honeybun35 Honestly, it sounds like he is using you for a quickie but you don’t seem to mind.

If if were me, I wouldn’t want that type of relationship but if you want it, it seems your only choice is to pay for the hotel for the two of you to have sex.

Is this the married guy you wrote about a couple years ago?

Celebrities aren’t real people. He wants sex, but not a relationship, and only on his terms. If you’re okay with being used like this, go for it, but recognize that he will likely abandon you at some point. It’s your life and your call, and admittedly being used can be hot, as long as you’re not expecting anything more. Some people pay money to sleep with prostitutes, so paying to sleep with someone you perceive as high status is probably a step above.

@honeybun35 Just make sure you use a condom because you don’t want to be exposed to the diseases of whoever else he is sleeping with.

Famous singers/famous people simply don’t pay for a room for sex. They have a feeling of entitlement.

Bottom line, he’s just not that into you!

^^There’s a song in there somewhere. ;)

Entitled to what? They’re the ones with the money.

Entitled to anything because they have money! They expect to be treated better.

Oh I see and yes I already saw that in him the one time I was with him.

After 7 I assume? Sounds like a jerk.

Funny…I just saw a celebrity say…Sorry, I’m the prize. I don’t spend money on cheap bitches!!! I’ll take you out once in a while but you better treat me like a king. Celebrities don’t go out with common folk unless they are bored & looking to impress somebody & you’re dumb enough to be impressed. Celebrities don’t care what you want…it’s what they want that counts. The rich “stay rich” by NOT spending money on unimportant things!!!

I don’t care if it’s Tom Cruise. If he can’t treat me with the RESPECT that I feel I deserve, then he’s gone & I’ll find myself a REAL lover who will. You are waayyy too impressed with the “celebrity” status!!!

If you’re willing to pay for the hotel, and you just want sex, you can probably make some calls or send some texts and find ten people right now.

This have nothing to do with my post. I was speaking on one individual.