How much money should I give my relative for concert tickets she couldn’t use?
My aunt is a single mom caring for a 30s has an adult child with autism (my cousin), and my cousin’s behavioral/emotional state has taken a recent dive such that my aunt couldn’t use some pricey ($280/2) concert tickets. Originally, she asked if I would take my cousin, but as my cousin’s emotional state got worse, she just offered them to me to take whoever I wanted, and my best option ended up being my sister.
The show was great, the seats were great, and it was a sold out show for a band I grew up with that I’m glad I got to see (sort of a bucket list show) but that I probably wouldn’t have sought out on my own. I’m not paying that kind of money for any concert ticket these days mainly because I’m older and not enamored with bands like I used to be.
So I’d just like a sounding board. . . I’d like to give her some money, and usually I have a gut feeling about how much is a good amount, but this time I don’t. (My sister got my aunt some merch but didn’t offer money.) What do you think?
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