@patg7590 but who are you to judge her?
I judge her no more or less than I judge anyone else. And no more or less than I would expect other people to judge me.
I have to judge people so I have some means of knowing who is trustworthy, and who it is best to avoid. My criteria are personal but they are reasonable. Among them I think that if anyone prioritizes an abstract concept (religious or not) over human wellbeing their priorities are destructive and hurt the efforts of mankind to live harmoniously with eachother on a personal and potentially a global scale.
There is nothing right or admirable about cherishing someone else’s misfortune, no matter who you are. She wasn’t offering them comfort. She refrained from delivering the real help they came looking for because she thought it was holier for them to suffer. Even if suffering was holy, she had no place imposing it on them when they came to her for help.
Judgement is not a bad thing. It’s necessary, and ideally, imposed uniformly and without preferencial treatment.