@Dibley I really don’t want to be mean; I don’t want to pile on, and I don’t want you to feel that you’re being picked on. But you have some old-fashioned, chauvinistic and frankly misogynistic opinions, and that’s what you’re being called on. Repeatedly. You seem to take it personally, and feel that no one likes you because some of us really do hate your ideas. I’m sure that you’re a lovely young woman.
If you’ve read this far… the thing we’re taking issue with is your collection of ideas that women are in some ways somehow “less” than men. That is, that they can’t get dirty, lift heavy loads, kill (or face) spiders or cook “as well as men”. Feel free to add anything else to the list that you think women can’t do as well as men, but I’ve gotten these right, haven’t I? (They’re your words, from this thread and others.)
The reason those are bad ideas (maybe wrong, but certainly unsupported generalizations) is that women have been fighting very hard in western societies to prove just the opposite: they are just as tough, strong, smart and capable as men in nearly any endeavor. (Maybe not some athletic ones—yet—but they’re catching up there, too.) I would never say (as you have just now said) that “men are better at [any of the things you’ve mentioned so far]”, and for you to say it is a real slap in the face to other women who know that it just ain’t so!
If you want to make assertions that “men are better” in some areas, then you’d better be prepared to back that up with more than “because I know it”, or “because I know some who are” or “because more of them do [whatever]”. Those are simply anecdotal evidence and do not constitute proof.
Make a case for male superiority if you want, but don’t just blandly throw it out that “I know this is true” or you’ll face this here forever.