Well I don’t know if this is the same for everyone, but say if I go on a date, and the guy doesn’t call me or message me for a few days, I will think about him more than if he messages me straight away. And then when he does finally call I’m like putty in his hand!!!!!
I guess if guys play the “hard to get” card, or the “treat em mean, keep em keen” card with me It makes me think….“why does he think he’s better than me? did I underestimate him?”
If a guy is nice and thoughtful and really into me straight away I think “What the F*CK is wrong with this guy?...I must have missed something”
Basically, the “treat em mean, keep em keen” thing keeps me interested for a while…..I’m a sucker.