I was actually alive and living a great life in the 90’s and I had no celly, no computer, no video games, no TV cable. What I did have was a great group of friends and a few lovers. My off work time was spent dancing, road tripping, exploring, visiting, surfing, hiking, entertaining, drawing, reading, cooking, lots of sharing common things with others. I miss those times.
A modern relationship now seems to be partners come home from work and go away from each other in order to unwind instead of coming together and talking or just being together like what I’m used to. I remember the days when a day off together was like a dream! You’d be debating whether to shut in and make love all day with tasty nibbles in between or getting out early to go out of town together.
Friends and I used to get together on weekends or days off to grocery shop together, cook for each other, go window shopping or exploring other towns. We played cards, chess, board games, threw parties, went to zoos, museums, art gallery nights, gardens, lakes, rivers, oceans, mountains, wine country, etc.