@anniereborn I think that is a key difference. It is relatively quick and easy to make men orgasm, so we like it.
After my prostate surgery, like most men, I was told by the surgeon to have sex often to keep blood flowing and help the nerves heal. That was the last thing on my mind! After surgery, guys are given lessons on how to use various devices, drugs, and tools that increase blood flow. It was not enjoyable at all but the “Use it or lose it” rule was hanging over my head so I used it!
Quantity was much more important than Quality.
To get back to the original question
Let’s say a perfect high Quality orgasm (whatever that is) is scored 100 points. How would I score a “Quantity” orgasm? It still feels great. Would I cal it 20 points? Would I trade 5 Quantity orgasms for a Quality? No. Is it 30 points? Would I trade ~3 Quantity for a Quality? Maybe. How about 50 points? I’d definitely trade 2 Quantity for a Quality orgasm. So that means in my world a Quantity orgasm is worth between 30 and 50 points Call it 40 points.
Life is limited so we need to enjoy what we can, while we can. To that end we should follow some guidelines:
1) If given the choice between Quantity and Quantity for a single event, go for Quality. (100 points vs 40 points)
2) Quantity helps the body in more ways than just the O. It is aerobic exercise, it increases blood flow, and nerve response. 40 points every time
3) Humans are poorly designed machines. The components need to be used or they will atrophy. Use it! Don’t let perfect become the enemy of the good.