Well. There’s a difference between young men, and grown men. Young men are more driven by conquest, competition, and physical prowess. As they age, they should change motivations, to better suit their decreased strengths, and take advantage of their experience/wisdom. Mainly, that involves less violence, and reckless behavior.
Grown men, as a whole, prefer a routine of sorts. Which seems to agitate females. Most male behavior, seems to agitate females. Just not as much as females agitate other females…