Have you ever considered that perhaps evolution is the higher power? Why does it have to have anything to do with God?
Millions upon millions of people have sex every day. Who is attracted to whom is largely out of our hands, determined by metagenetic influences, pheromones, and social desirability. Some people are attracted to the same sex, and their genes tend to drop out of the gene pool; others are attracted to the opposite sex, and their genes carry forward. And, among those, certain “desirable” types are more successful than others.
Behind all these attractions there may well be a hidden hand selecting for some traits and deselecting for others. For example, metagenetic studies suggest that for every male child a woman carries to term, the chance of her next male child being homosexual increases 25%. Girls who grow up with their natural fathers tend to mature sexually several months later than girls who grow up with an unrelated male in the house.
Women who were given the t-shirts of men to smell, and asked to choose a one, chose males whose immune systems were most complimentary to their own. The effects of famine and toxic exposures have reproductive effects, in some cases, for up to three generations. Geeks were packed off to monasteries in the middle ages; now they are the preferred mates to some women.
So, there are all sorts of things influencing natural selection that the operate outside of our awareness. In the aggregate they could constitute a kind of “hidden hand.”